Weight: 15 lbs. 7 oz 97%
Height: 24 in. 96%
Head: 15.9 in. 87%
Just One Week Old
Gavin "helping" with diaper changes
My three boys
Early morning snuggles
Father's Day (not the most relaxing for Sam)
Snuggles with Grandma Pam
We call Wade our Juicy Turkey
Happy One Month Old! Not the best picture, but it was the best we could get
It is fair to say that Wade is still our big boy and he just keeps growing and growing. I am going to start needing to lift weights to be able to keep up with holding him.
Life with Wade has been kind of a roller coaster. The first week we brought him home was kind of the calm before the storm. We were tired of course but things seems manageable and I really felt like we had things under control. Sam took a whole week off of work and so I had extra help all week. We had so many family members and neighbors bring us dinner that I hardly had to even cook anything the first week and we had so many leftovers. Gavin was being taken by family members and neighbors to come and play and so he was kept busy.
Well it was after the first week that the realities of having two children and the trickiness of a newborn really set in. Our first real challenge was that Wade was beginning to struggle nursing. I found that I was having to nurse him all night long and it was starting to get to me. The second challenge was that Wade grunted all the time. I mean ALL THE TIME, but especially when he was trying to sleep. It was really impossible to sleep at the same time as him because he would grunt so hard that you for sure thought he was awake so you would check on him and he would still be asleep. The third challenge was that it felt like my milk really hadn't come in. I never felt that surge that I had felt with Gavin and it just seemed like not much was coming out, yet I was trying to nurse Wade all the time. I finally started counting how many feedings he was having and one day it was 17 times. After that I was like, okay nope. We need to figure this out. I realized that my milk probably hadn't come in and so I started pumping. I also had my sister in law who is a lactation consultant watch him nurse and check his mouth to see if he had a lip tie, which he did. My mind set this time around was to do whatever it took to help with nursing and make things easier in the long run. I decided that we would introduce a bottle after about a week and that I would just pump whenever he had a bottle and we wouldn't worry too much about it.
When Wade was just two weeks we took him to a pediatric dentist who confirmed he had a lip tie as well as a tongue tie, so we went ahead with the procedure to have them corrected. It was pretty sad and I felt so guilty for putting him through it afterwards because he was so sad fussy. That first night was actually not so bad and Wade actually nursed really well and it gave me some hope that he would nurse well again. Well after that things got worse and he refused to nurse at all, which is actually normal after that procedure and I told myself we would give it time to heal before I gave up on nursing. The thing is that since he wasn't nursing we had to just use bottles during that week until he would nurse again, but it kind of ruined nursing. I think that it is just easier for him to use a bottle and for some reason it is just a lot of work for him to nurse from me so he prefers the bottle. He also has a very bad gag reflex. I'm not sure if it is me or him, the angle he is when nursing, his trouble gagging and swallowing, who knows, but nursing is so hard for him and therefore hard for me.
Needless to say, the nursing issue has dominated our lives for the last two months and there have been some pretty bad lows of feeling like a failure of a mom. I had so much hope that nursing would go well this time around and so much hope when we came home because Wade nursed so well in the hospital. Nursing was never that great with Gavin and so I was hoping it would be better this time around and not worse. To top it all off Wade developed acid reflux which has just made eating kind of a challenge overall. We did put him on a medicine for that and it has helped a lot. Wade sleeps pretty well and gives us some good stretches at night. Also with bottle feeding, Sam kind of has to help me in the night so I can pump, and that has divided the night time load a lot so I am way less sleep deprived. Poor Sam is a lot more sleep deprived this time.
On top of all these challenges and doctors appointments and poking and prodding Wade, we have also all been sick, except (miraculously) for Wade. When Wade was about a month old Gavin came down with this horrible fever that lasted a whole week. Then we had a break over the 4th of July, thankfully, and then I came down with it. It was this crazy sore throat and body aches with a fever. I am just now finally feeling back to normal. Then on top of that Sam not only got sick but also got this crazy case of pink eye that would not go away. He had to go to specialist and it is finally improving after over a week of having it. We have all been so paranoid about not getting Wade sick and so far we have been successful. I give all credit to breast milk for keeping him healthy, as well of lots of hand washing!
We have had a lot of challenges these last two months, not to mention some major behavioral problems with Gavin (that could be a whole other post by itself) and just my overall dislike of the July heat. I feel like if we could just make it to two months and to the end of July, things would get better. And you know what? It has started to. I feel like we are such better parents and so much more prepared that we have really been able to overcome some challenging days. Have there been tears and feelings of hopelessness at times? Yes, but I feel like this time around I have such a different perspective that this is such a fleeting time and to just enjoy Wade at every moment. Even in the middle of the night when I wish I was asleep.
In the middle of all of that we blessed Wade at Church on July 7th. It was a really good day and we had everyone in our families come plus some friends. Wade wore Sam's blessing outfit from when he was blessed and it was so adorable. Sam gave a beautiful blessing and I actually remembered to record it this time (unlike with Gavin's). We had a nice lunch after and despite the heat and the wind, everything turned out.
(Photos by Torrie Lynn Photography)
Wade has grown and developed so much over the last few weeks. He started really smiling and reacting to us about the time of his blessing. I just love seeing my kids grow and develop and I love that his little personality is coming out. Wade loves to go to sleep at night. He really gets fussy in the evening and that's when you know he is ready for bed. For as hard as it is for him to eat sometimes he sure eats a lot. He is growing so fast! Wade loves to be snuggled by all his aunts and grandmas. He is finding his hands and sucks on his hands and fingers a lot. He is getting so strong and can almost hold up his head on his own. He has started smiling a lot more and it melts my heart every time. He is a little bit more of a serious baby and is kind of emotional. He definitely lets you know how he feels when he is feeling it.
4th of July at my parent's house. They live right along the parade route for the Centerville Parade so we have a tradition of going to that on the 4th.
Gavin took this one all by himself. He is very into taking very flattering pictures of me... not.
Patriotic Baby
The picture that describes my true life.
Gavin went to his very first friend birthday party and he loved it.
The next weekend he went to his cousin Daniel's birthday party and he loved that one too!
The beginning of the never ending pink eye, it only got worse after this picture.
Sam is really happy about me posting these pictures of him... But I thought one day we would laugh at how much of a mess we all were this week, literally. Look at that spit up.
To top it off Gavin got bit by a hornet and now is hyper aware of any bee outside and is very worried about being stung again. I can't say I blame him.
We managed a few evening walks when it wasn't blazing hot outside. I am really looking forward to cooler evenings so we can go on more walks.
For the 24th we went to the Bountiful Parade. This is the only picture I took because it was so hot and Wade was not loving the parade that I really didn't have a chance to take any more. It was fun but we have learned that Wade does not like being out in the heat, load parades, or being out late.
Happy Two Months to Wade! His smiles melt me every time!
Wade is seriously a little sweetie. He is just so cuddly and squishy and we just love to kiss his cheeks. We are still figuring out how to manage our new family of four and to figure out this feeding thing but other than those challenges, we really can't complain. I am learning that I need to change my expectations for what I thought Wade would be as a baby. The more I accept things the way they really are the more I am able to just enjoy Wade. We are so happy he is a part of our family. I feel like the first two months are always going to just be survival mode and so to get to this mile stone feels so good. Happy two months Wade! We love you!
